Story
Orgy Talks Smack... I mean SMEX
Y'all
are not going to believe this, but a year ago I had no idea what smex
was. *nods vigorously* Because I am perennially naïve and apparently
oblivious to half the shit that happens in the world around me. *shrugs*
Whatever. I have David Bowie, Tom Petty and tequila.
Then
I found Story Orgy and Em and Havan * waves at Muse and Goddess lounging on the
sofa* Who have enlightened me to many things I never knew about before. Some of
which will be covered in this interrogation. *strolls over to join my Muse on
the sofa*
I baked. (brownies and chocolate chip cookies). I
bought wine. I even lit candles and a fire in the fireplace. Okay-
I might have done that so no one could see me blushing, but still, it makes for
a nice cozy atmosphere, anyway? Right?
So
we've got drinks, we've got snacks, we just need Hank and JR to quit wrestling
over the remote. (Never should have told them Glee and Walking Dead are
on Netflix)
Ahh...
there now, Jade has taken care of the issue for us with some lovely artwork she
provided. J We're ready.
Keep
in mind- these questions are only the third set – we have more for you next
week at Hank's place!
1. How many of you act out your smex
scenes (whether with your head or with someone else's) and how does that help
you in writing them? *eyes them all* and be honest! Hehe
Lee: Who wrote these questions? Oh, that's
right. We did. Well, if we're going to talk things that make me blush,
then I'm going to need tequila and David Bowie. *sips tequila, cranks up Lady
Stardust* Okay what was that? I don't act out my sex scenes. I do
try to visualize it- you know to see if it works. .
Em: I try to see the scene in my head and let it play out.
Half the time I'm typing away with my eyes closed just to keep the details
lingering. *eyes my follow orgiasts* But if anyone's volunteering... *wink*
JR: I think
about all kinds of things: personal experiences, porno scenes, porno mag
articles, conversations. All these things filter through my head like the news
ticker for Wall Street.
Hank: A lot of
times my smex scenes might come from a mix of porn scenes (yeah, my partner and
I watch it!), or just the feeling I get from the characters, like how I expect
them to enjoy it. I have tried a few out with my partner, of course, and that's
a lot of the fun!
Havan:
Hey! This is my question…do I have to answer this one? *heads desk* Fine…fine I'll answer it…*takes a fortifying breathe*…Well…considering
I happen to not have the right bits and pieces to act out the sex scenes I
write with my M/M Story Orgy prompts—I would have to answer this by saying no
(hey! we aren't talking toys here lol)—but I can run them through my mind with
my eyes closed and see if they're plausible. Oh—and I can call a select few
male friends who laugh while I blunder through trying to ask them if the sex
scene is … well … sexy and/or doable. *face palm* Now if we were talking about
my M/F erotica…
2. What is the oddest thing you've found
while researching for a smex scene?
Lee: Well, I found out some peopel
name their toys. At first, I didn't believe it. And yet... I
confirmed this with my lovely muse and the Goddess, who is the final
authority. They concurred that my research was correct. Despite that
information, I refused to name Arden Gray's vibrator in Giving Up. Lord,
it was bad enough I had to type the word pussy.
Em: You know, there just isn't anything that surprises me
anymore. But I can remember my naivety fleeing into the night, screaming
'eewww' when I came across water play. I know there are people who dig
that...but...well, good for them. LOL.
JR: Oohh my o.O!
So many, so much, so...*sigh* - I would have to say that the article I read
about deformed sex organs popped up in my research one time. Jeez!
Crazy...that's all I'm gonna say about that... C.R.A.Z.Y. *smh*
Hank: Scat play
is just … yeah, that's not right. And sounding makes me cringe.
Havan: Okay – while I was
researching for super-de-duper prompts to give to the Goddess I happened to
come across a sex toy store (oh yeah, halo cock ring baby—remember that one?
hehe)…and well—it turns out that they had certain things in stock with my name
on them—except spelled with an 'e' instead of the second 'a'. It's called a
'Haven pocket p----'…um…yeah I'm not saying that word on my muse's blog *heads
desk*. But I hope you got the gist—it had some spectacular features: an extra
long ribbed love tunnel and a little packet of lube too! Yeah—TMI?
Oh-kay, not sure if that is odd but it did stick
in my mind—well halibut if used properly it probably stuck other places too but—ewwww
*heads desk again*. And the moral of this segment? Always clean your toys
properly…*looks around for that darn bottle of tequila*
3. What's the most difficult aspect of
crafting a smexy scene?
Lee: I find that the most difficult aspect
of crafting a sex scene is to incorporate the correct degree of feeling.
I mean emotion. A sex scene isn't always about emotions – sometimes it's
just about lust, and I have to be careful to distinguish between them.
Em: What's the most difficult aspect of crafting a smexy
scene?
Variation. Just like a person's sex life can get stale...so
can a writer's fictional one. I try to keep it different for each couple. It is
easy to fall into a routine of mechanics but an author has to remember to keep
their lovelives spicy too!
JR: The most
difficult part of writing smex scenes for me is that my brain moves faster than
my fingers. I can't get all my moves onto the page fast enough. Then I have to
go back and mentally have sex all over again. And it's never the same *heads
desk*.
Hank: You have to
be in the right mind set to do it. Just like you have to be in the mood to have
sex, you have to be in the mood to WRITE ABOUT people have sex.
Havan:
This may come as a shock to some of you but I tend to be a bit gabby … no—not
grabby, well yeah that too but right now we're talking about my wordiness not
touchiness. So it seems like my characters never really want to get down and
dirty right out of the gate … no—they want to wine and dine and usually fight
too before they even think about getting down to business. And when they do get
down to business—they're normally talking about the business they're getting
down to instead of doing it!!!!
Personally, I can't wait until I start writing
my Djinn Shan's story—you just know he's gonna be a slut puppy! *face palm
while giggling*
4. What expression ("oh
yeah" or "oh my God") do you think has been overused in smex
scenes and what are you doing about it?
Lee: "Fuck yeah". I hate
reading that, especially if it's used more than once in a scene. It's
like, "Hey, David Bowie is in town and I got tickets, you wanna go?"
"Fuck yeah!" It might be realistic, but I don't like it.
What am I doing about it? I hope I'm not
using it. That's about all I intend to do about it.
Em: "Oh God" .... and I try like crazy to not use
it!!
JR: I don't know
about everyone else, but my overused expression is "Unngh!" And you
ask what I'm doing about it? Pffft...I make my boys hit that ass even
harder...that's what! :P
Hank: "Fuck
me" is pretty standard, or "Fuck yeah," or "Oh god." I
try to capture the little sounds of two people together. The gasps and moans,
the breathing, the expressions and kissing. Short sentences are good:
"Okay?" "Yeah." "Good?" "Really good."
Havan: I never liked the "Oh my God"
during sex … dudes—your fornicating—unless you don't know what you're doing
chances are you don't need him at that moment … learn the name of the guy
you're with and start shouting that … let God do his own thing. Geez—I gotta
think he's probably the busy type. What am I doing about it? Honestly, I won't
say I never use the OMG while my boys are grinding … but I'd like to think it
isn't the norm and it will continue to not be—I like my guys calling out their
partner's names. Well unless we are talking about Shan *deep breath*
again…cause yeah, he would so just cry out bakery goods, "Oh my cupcake!
Honey bun hit it harder! Oh streusel I'm com—"
Yeah, about like that. hehe
5. Do you have any particular rituals in
preparation for writing a smex scene? If not, what would you consider a good
idea?
Lee: *Sips tequila* *cues Bowie's
Ashes to Ashes* "Rituals"? No, I don't have any rituals I
follow for writing anything. LOL. I get up, make and drink coffee, watch
the sunrise and turn on the computer to let the words flow. If the words
don't cooperate, I bake something. If that doesn't help, I read or walk in the
woods.
Em: Do you have any particular rituals in preparation for
writing a smex scene? If not, what would you consider a good idea?
Surprisingly, I don't. But the best advice I could give is to do what works for
you. If you need to smooch on your honey or if you need to load smexy music, go
for it. I need to just dive on into it. The more I think on it, the more I over
think it and ruin it.
JR: I don't have
any particular rituals I do prior to writing a smex scene, but I can tell you
this - it makes me hungrier than hell. I would consider it a good idea to eat a
good meal beforehand.
Hank: Limber up? LOL! Okay, I kid. Again,
you have to be in the right mind set for it. I tend to let the scene build in
my head, sort of like anticipation. Like when you talk with your partner about
having sex later, maybe when you're both alone, and the anticipation is a big
part of it.
Havan: Really? Who's idea was it to have a group
of questions on sex—with us??? *heads desk* Honestly, I stay away from any and
all types of erotica and porn when I know a sex scene is about to come. In
fact—the easiest sex scene I wrote was in the middle of the night with everyone
in the house in slumber and I hadn't even looked at a naughty picture for at
least two days. I don't know…maybe I get a buildup inside of me…it whips itself
into such a frenzy of needs and wants…it rises from within, jetting through me
until it explodes in one glorious moment of colors and sounds and dreams…onto
the paper? *sips drink and smirks innocently (cause yeah—I'm that good hehe)*
What?
Hey! Here's an idea- can you guess which Orgiast asked each question?
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